Every time I see cases in the media of historic sex abusers being brought before the courts I hope that my uncle has a huge surge of fear in case I report what he did to me when I was a child. People always say to forgive even if you can’t forget. I can’t forgive or forget, he stole my life, he changed the dynamics of my extended family and the way my I perceived my value as a human being. I do NOT forgive that, and I will not.