If I dress in shorts or a skirt, I am ‘asking for it’.
If I dress in jeans, I am asking for it.
If I dress in trousers I am not feminine.
I have big breasts. If I wear a top that shows any part of them, I am asking for it.
If I hide them away, I am not feminine and not showing my ‘assets’
When I was slender, I was desirable and therefore asking for it.
Now I am overweight will I be ignored.
Because rapists don’t rape because you are sexy or feminine or pretty or any of those other bullshit reasons. They rape you because they like the power they have over you.