I was at my cousin’s party and had way too much to drink. I woke up in my cousin’s friend’s bedroom while he was having sex with me. I asked him to stop but it was too late. I was too drunk to fight him off, so I let him finish then just lay there pretending to sleep, not knowing what to do.  I left early in the morning feeling like shit, but never said anything because it was my cousin’s friend and I didn’t want to shame my family.